Thursday, 19 January 2012
My Own Worst Enemy!
I wear my heart on my sleeve.
I expect people to be just like me.
I give people second chances.
I look for the best in people and find it hard to see the bad.
I accept friends for what they are and I accept their bad points as well as their good because to me, thats what being a true friend is all about.
So because of these traits I have been accused of being two faced and fickle.
I make no apologies for giving anyone a second chance if I am able to and I have given many people in my life a second chance but never a third.
2011 I learnt many lessons about people.
They are not who they tell you they are.
They won't give second chances to anyone.
They don't accept faults in their friends.
It was a shock I can tell you!
I think the point I am trying to make is that I have been hurt beyond belief by people over the last year. People have turned out not to be the people I thought they were.
What do I do? Well..... those people have been cut from my life and will never be accepted in again.
I have learnt to toughen up with people and not accept what they tell me with my previous innocence.
But I tell you one thing!!!!
These experiences won't change me as a person. I will not become bitter. I will not become nasty. I will use it to grow as a person but at the same time I will protect myself.