There are many forms of bullying, not necessarily the one that you automatically think of which is the hitting, pushing around etc.
Bullying takes on many forms.
It could be manipulating mutual friends to turn their back on a person...... It could be using social networking sites to play with peoples feelings.... that delete button is so easy to press and so clinical. With that one action a person can be cut to the core.
Bullying can be telling lies about a person.
Bullying can be making a person doubt themselves with little jibes, little barbed comments.
Bullying is a horrible thing to do to another person. I have tried to think why anyone would want to make another person unhappy and the only conclusion I can reach is that the Bully gets a great sense of power by carrying out such actions.
All I want out of life is to have peace.
I treat others as I would have them treat me and I forgive very easily. Some might see forgiving another person as being "two faced" but I see it as being a show of strength. Its easy to hold grudges and easy to make people feel miserable but it takes a great deal of inner strength to forgive and move forward in life.
I must admit Sara -when someone hurts me I do hold onto a grudge far longer than I should-wish I could take a leaf out of your book and become a better person and forgive more easily-I do admire you for that ! All I can say is I will try harder in the future- wise words -you are such a good person lol x
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